| "Just One Thing"
A sermon preached by Rev. Deana Dudley at Christos Metropolitan Community Church Toronto, Ontario 7 March 2004 Isaiah 45:11-12, 17-19 and John 15:5-12 |
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I like the gospel of John. Some of you may know that I’m working on or SUPPOSED to be working on, a commentary on John’s gospel with a group of scholars and theologians who are doing basically a queer commentary on the whole bible. And I get to do John. Which I consider a great honour, not to mention a great challenge.
And I think John’s gospel has some wonderful things to say to the whole world, but especially to our community. When you think about it, John’s gospel raises some interesting issues.... Coming out issues with Nicodemus and Lazarus... The whole issue around who was the beloved disciple, and just what WAS his relationship to Jesus? Issues around the beloved community. As LGBT people who’ve been at the forefront of the AIDS epidemic, we have a unique perspective on issues of bereavement that come up in John. And some very queer biblical family values are unique to John’s gospel, like the Samaritan woman with her 6 husbands, and Jesus creating new families of choice. But I think John’s gospel has its most important and most universal application, when it talks about how we’re to live in the world in light of Jesus’ command that we love one another. That’s a pretty rich topic to preach on. And, as is so often the case, my real dilemma is not that there is nothing to say, but that there’s so much. The problem is narrowing it down. Eventually, the problem solved itself by greatly narrowing down my choice of sermon topics.
You see, I have a little confession to make about my sermons. Or, perhaps I should say... my sermon. Singular. You see, anybody who’s ever heard me preach probably already knows this. I really only have one sermon. And for those of you who may have heard bits and pieces of this sermon before you know I’m telling the truth. Amen??? In fact, it’s WORSE than that. What I’ve discovered about preaching is that there may only BE one sermon. And it goes something like this:
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God loves us unconditionally and passionately and eternally. God wants a loving relationship with us. And to that end, God sent Jesus Christ to become one of us, and show us how to love God and love one another. And God wants us to have joy-filled, loving relationships with one another, and with all creation, and to share with the whole world the love we’ve received, in tangible ways. |
| Let me repeat that. God loves us unconditionally and passionately and eternally. God wants a loving relationship with us, and to that end, God sent Jesus Christ to become one of us, and show us how to love God and love one another. And God wants us to have joy-filled, loving relationships with one another, and with all creation, and to share with the whole world the love we’ve received, in tangible ways. Got it? |
Got It? |
Good, because that’s pretty much it. Every single sermon that I have preached or ever will preach, and I strongly suspect every single sermon ever written, is really just a gloss on that message.
Oh, we try and package it up differently every week, hoping nobody catches on. And, in truth, it makes sense to do that, since not everyone listens every week, and different people learn things differently. We’re all wired a little differently. But in word or in image or in song... it’s still the same message. Week after week, year after year, millennia after millennia. And it comes to us in many scriptures, and many ways. It comes to us in the teachings of Jesus, and in the letters of the early church. It comes to us in the care God showed God’s people all throughout the Hebrew scriptures, and it comes to us in the cries of the prophets, and in the Psalms of David. So what to choose? What’s the good news for us, today, as we gather together to look toward changes, and toward a new future?
Well, I want to focus on what Judi read from the prophet Isaiah, and from the Gospel according to John. Mainly this: "Jesus said: I have said these things to you so that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be complete."
Now, does this make any sense? It may not be totally clear because Judi only read a few verses and not the previous two chapters, but this dialogue takes place at the last supper. The night before Jesus dies, and he knows where he’s headed. So here's Jesus rhapsodizing about complete joy at a time when he knows perfectly well he's about to be crucified. And he didn’t need to see Mel Gibson’s movie to know what it was going to be like. He knew. And he wanted to talk about joy anyway. It's a little disconcerting. It kinda makes you wonder what on earth he was thinking.
But yes, it does make a weird kind of sense. This is his farewell conversation with his friends. And at a time like that, it's a time to focus on the most important things and fix those things in their minds and memories. Therefore it's a time for Jesus to remind them that the whole point of God's creation is love and joy. So they won't forget what the whole point is.
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We do sometimes have a tendency to forget what the whole point is. In fact, the tribulations of this life and the frailties of the human spirit combine to make it more or less inevitable that we’ll occasionally forget that life in this world is supposed to be a joy. Sometimes it seems like there's so much to be disappointed and angry and anxious about. You'd have to be in denial, you'd have to be a pathological Pollyanna, to say love and joy are what life is all about, wouldn't you? |
Well, I've given that a lot of thought, and I don't think joy requires pathological denial, but I have decided it demands a certain persistence, a certain stubbornness. Such as the stubbornness that I think I perceive in what God said according to the prophet Isaiah that Judi read a few minutes ago, which I would paraphrase something like this: "Don't you dare second-guess me about the world and the people that I made with my own hands! I'm the one who made the earth and put you on it. I'm the one who put the heavens over your head, and all the stars. I didn't put you here to be forever shamed and confounded! I didn't create the whole thing to be a mess! I made it to be your home! And I did a darned good job of it, if I do say so myself. And I made no secret of what I was up to. I told you how it is and who I am. Here it is. Take it or leave it!"
When I hear that, I think to myself, "This is a God who is feeling under-appreciated." Under-appreciated because God did this wonderful thing, made this wonderful world and these marvellous creatures (um, that would be us), and they (or rather, we) are always mucking it up and whining about it and looking for somebody else to blame. This s a God who is defiant.
| Remember last summer, the theme for Toronto’s Gay Pride Parade? It was "3-D... Diverse, Defiant, Divine." Some people don’t like to think about Defiance, as Judi found out, when she put together a Pride display for the Anglican Bookstore. Diverse, divine... that they could handle. But Defiant gave them the willies. But what we at Christos said was "Our God IS 3D !" God is Diverse, Defiant, and Divine. And what we told Toronto was God IS defiant. God is on the side of JUSTICE for ALL people! God blessed our loving relationships long before the government did! |
God is 3 D! |
And this passage from Isaiah reminds me of just how defiant God really is! Just how stubborn God is,.... about what? About joy. You can mess up this world if you must, says God, but I, God, am still and always determined to take joy in what I've done, what I am doing, and what I will do, and to share that joy with whosoever is willing to accept the invitation. It's up to us. Joy’s not an automatic thing on our part. It doesn't take care of itself. We have to choose it, we have to choose it over and over again, we have to work at it. We have to be persistent. We have to be stubborn. Just like God. In the passage Judi read from John’s gospel, Jesus commands his disciples that they love one another as he has loved them.
| Guess what? Jesus doesn't really care how you feel about it! | Now, I have a question: How can Jesus COMMAND love? And, fortunately, for once I also have an answer: Because Jesus doesn't really care how they feel about it. He's telling them to do the work of love whether or not they feel like it. If the feeling’s there right away, great, then the work’s easy. But if the work of love starts before the feeling of love, then you may have a problem. In that case, you have to be persistent and stubborn. God is. Jesus was. We need to be persistent and stubborn too. And you know folks, for the most part, the feeling’s never there at the beginning, so the work of love is never easy. If there's a feeling there at the beginning that seems to make the work easy, don't trust it. It's probably bogus. The work of love always comes first, and there is absolutely no reason for any of us to undertake it — except, possibly, the experience of having received that very thing, that very love, ourselves. |
I’ve had occasion in recent weeks to do a number of weddings. And when I speak to the couples during these ceremonies that are a celebration of love, I tell them that I think the greatest joy in life is the knowledge that we are known for who we are, and loved for ourselves, for exactly who we are. Knowing that we’re loved, cared for, treasured, forgiven, cherished — Knowing God’s unconditional love for us.... that's what makes us try to live out that command. That’s what puts us to work at the work of love. And that’s what saves and redeems our lives. And that’s what makes God’s joy, and our joy, complete. So that’s the sermon. It’s the only one I know. Keep on working at the work of love. That your joy may be complete.
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